Welcome, Dear Friends.
I’m truly grateful that you’ve taken the time to visit this special space, created to mark a very meaningful moment in my life; my 40th birthday.
As I reflect on the journey so far, my heart overflows with gratitude. These past four decades have been filled with countless lessons, moments of joy and growth, challenges that shaped me, and above all, the unwavering grace of God. This milestone isn't just a number, it’s a testament to God's faithfulness, the love of family and friends, and the purpose He continues to unfold in my life.
Turning 40 is both humbling and inspiring. It invites reflection, but also stirs up hope and renewed purpose. I carry with me the words of Isaiah 43:19:“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?”
Indeed, I believe this is the beginning of a new and fruitful season. A time to walk even more boldly in faith, to serve deeper, love wider, and live more intentionally. In the words of C.S. Lewis: “You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”
This season, I’m dreaming more; not only for myself, but for all whose paths I cross. I’m believing for greater impact, deeper relationships, and unshakable joy.
To everyone who has been part of my journey, whether for years or just recently, thank you. Your support, encouragement, prayers, and friendship have been God’s gift to me. Celebrating this milestone wouldn’t be complete without sharing it with you.
So, whether you’re joining the celebration in person or in spirit, know that you are deeply appreciated and warmly welcomed. Let’s celebrate life, faith, and the incredible adventure still ahead!
With love and gratitude,
IBK
Mrs O
Ibuks, my G!
The angel on my shoulder! Growing up and growing older with you has been the greatest joy of my life. We’ve come such a long way and have truly experienced the goodness of God together.
I’ve watched you learn, evolve, and grow in ways that deeply inspire me. I’m so proud of the man you’ve become the same boy I fell in love with, but now even wiser and stronger.
Your heart is your greatest gift. I’m constantly moved by your genuine love for others, your kindness, and the way you sincerely want the best for everyone. You’re never in competition and you just want everyone to win.
The girls and I are beyond blessed to have you, but we’re not the only ones , anyone who knows you knows you’re a blessing. Thank you for always giving your best, for your sacrifices, your love, and your steady presence. Thank you for being my safe place .
I can’t wait to celebrate you.
Welcome to your new season , this one is a season of manifestation!
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Toni O
Happy 40th birthday, Dad! You’re the best—funny, kind, and always there for me.
You’re 40 now… that’s like, really old. But don’t worry—I hear 40 is the new 30… just with more naps! 😄
I love you so much. Enjoy your special day, superhero!
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Tara O
Daddy you have done so much for us; because you are so kind and generous.
You are 40!! Which is old. I know it means more sleepy time for you - ha ha ha. When you’re not there, you’re always in my heart where you belong.
You are loved in this family, may God bless you. Happy birthday; I love you with all my heart 💓
To My Precious Family — Ronke, Toni, and Tara,
I find myself reflecting on the greatest blessings God has given me and without hesitation, you are at the very top of that list.
Ronke, my love,
You have been my constant, my rock, my greatest earthly gift. Your strength, grace, and unwavering support have carried me through seasons of growth and challenge. Thank you for standing beside me in love and in faith. Your wisdom, patience, and quiet strength inspire me daily. I could not ask for a better partner to do life with.
Toni and Tara, my beautiful daughters,
You bring joy and light into my life in ways words can barely express. Watching you grow into kind, thoughtful, and vibrant young ladies fills my heart with pride and gratitude. Your laughter, your questions, your hugs; are a daily reminder of God’s goodness and of the hope that lives in the future. You are both part of my legacy, and I am honored to be your father.
To each of you, thank you for your love, your patience, your sacrifices, and your prayers. Thank you for making our home a place of laughter, of peace, of faith, and for giving me a reason to keep dreaming and striving.
As I celebrate 40 years of life, I do so with a full heart; because I have you.
With all my love,
Ibukun
